Money earned to be saved or spent ?

Every last working day of month when i get my salary credited to the bank the only thought which comes to my mind.....how should i spend it ???? no no .....how should i save it????....no no .....how much i should spend ???? ....no no how much i should save ??? .

Then starts the month
1)sir,rent to be paid
2)sir,electricity bill to be paid
3)cook,maid,netbill,groceries etc etc
4)Sir,Car loan.

Now that i have cleared all my bills it is time for saving. Then comes a friend,dude lets have a party,lets booze and yeah this is the toughest part to resist So you obviuosly end up spending not less than thousand bucks.Do not forget it is tough to resist the whole month with single party.So the parties keep happening and each time thousand bucks keep vanishing.In addition to these fuel,bus trips etc etc keep happening and the money still keeps vanishing.

Now when the last week of month is left we suddenly realize we have to save something and look at the bankbalance only to find balance -> 0  . Somehow the week passes and the last working day of month arrives and the salary is again credited..

Again the month ends with the thought....'Should i save or should i spend ? ' Funny life but reality.